Jay and Staci, Hoping to Adopt Pregnant? Call 800-972-9225 Text 415-355-4636
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Meet Jay and Staci

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Where We Live

Southern California

Favorite Holidays

Halloween, 4th of July, New Year's

Happy Places

Disneyland, the beach, the swimming pool, our backyard

Best Vacation

Hawaii! We go every winter.

Fun Facts

Jay and his sister are both adopted and so is our daughter Mabel.

Hi! We’re Staci, Mabel & Jay.

Family is very important to us, and adoption has always been a part of it. Our daughter Mabel can’t wait to be a big sister!

Our family loves Disney and Pixar movies, riding roller coasters at Disneyland, swimming in the ocean, reading books and flying around California in our airplane.

We admire you for considering to place your child for adoption and we look forward to getting to know you.

Why We Chose Open Adoption Again

Jay and his sister were both adopted and so were Staci’s cousins. Our daughter Mabel joined us through open adoption in 2013.

Our relationship with Mabel’s birth mom is very important to us and one reason we chose open adoption again. We want our children to know as much as possible about their birth family.

Read More About Jay & Staci

Home Is Wherever We’re Together

We live about 20 minutes east of Los Angeles with our four-year-old daughter Mabel and our dogs, Cody and Bo.

We’ve been together for 12 years and our relationship is built on love and teamwork. We work as a team to manage the household duties and take turns cooking dinner, giving baths and reading bedtime stories.


I always wanted to fly airplanes and live in California, and now I do both. I’m a private pilot, and we own a small airplane. The whole family loves to go flying – dog included! We love taking day trips to cities around the West Coast, constantly searching for the best hamburger in California.

I was born in Nebraska and adopted when I was a month old. Adoption has always been a part of my life. When I was six, my family moved to Greenville, South Carolina, which I consider my “hometown.” I love southern cooking, southern hospitality, and I can even speak “southerner.”

We all get ready together in the morning then I drop Mabel off at preschool before heading to my job at Disney. I’m a lead software engineer for Walt Disney Parks and Resorts.

Our weekends are usually pretty packed – playing with friends, visiting local beaches, parks and musuems, and of course, flying. But in my spare time, I like to work on projects around the house and on our airplane.

I never hesitate to start a tickle fight because I love hearing the sound of baby giggles.


Growing up I knew I wanted to explore the world. I grew up in Topeka, Kansas (yes, as in Dorothy, Toto and the Wizard), but I’ve been able to live in some amazing cities like Seattle, Knoxville, New York City and San Francisco. Now, I call Southern California my home.

I love singing and dancing to Disney songs around the house, and I can often be found baking or decorating cakes or cupcakes for my family’s birthdays and holidays.

Halloween is my favorite holiday, and I love creating costumes for the family and decorating our house.

I’m also learning how to fly and hope to have my private pilot license soon.

I’m an assistant professor at a private university where I teach communication. I get long winter breaks and summers off! My schedule is flexible so I can take Mabel to ice skating classes, MyGym and the swimming lessons. And of course, we go to Disneyland A LOT!

But snuggling up with Mabel to read books and talk about her day are two of my favorite pastimes.

Learn More About The Aspiring Big Sister


Mabel is the happiest, chattiest kid, ever! She loves climbing, twirling, dancing, singing and playing with friends outside. She takes swim and dance lessons and goes to gymnastics.

Mabel is a compassionate, curious child who loves to read books, do puzzles and build with LEGOs. She attends preschool now and will start kindergarten soon.

She has a big heart and a sweet personality. We know she will be the most amazing, caring big sister! She is constantly talking about the things she wants to teach her sibling and looks forward to welcoming another child into our family.

Get To Know Our Dogs

Cody aka “Cody Monster” is an 13 year old Lab mix. He’s the most gentle, easy-going dog we have every met. He loves chasing balls, squirrels and gophers, and he’s great with kids. Cody is very excited about welcoming a baby into the family. He loves the extra crumbs and belly pets!

Bo is our newest addition to the family. She’s a six month old Lab mix. She has lots of puppy energy and loves running in our yard with Mabel. She’s in doggie training right now learning all the basics. She follows Cody and Mabel everywhere and will certainly enjoy having another little one to play with.


Read About Our Thoughts on Parenting

We Believe In Laughter, Hugs & Kisses

Everyone is a unique individual, and we don’t think there is one “right’ way to parent. Our basic approach to parenting is to teach our children to be kind, considerate and respectful of other people’s feelings and grow up to be the best adults they can be.

We both believe strongly in the healing power of a good cry and a good laugh. We tell a lot of jokes and like to give each other a hard time. It’s all in good fun!

We want our children to experience as many different people, places and things as possible, so they grow up appreciating all that the world has to offer.

Life is meant to be enjoyed and we plan to enjoy every minute of it! We love that parenting gives us an opportunity to explore the world and learn as our children learn.