Regan and Dave, Hoping to Adopt Pregnant? Call 800-972-9225 Text 415-355-4636
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Meet Regan and Dave

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Where We Live

The beautiful sunny beach town, Santa Cruz, CA


Regan is a documentary filmmaker. Dave is a statistician at a homelessness and housing policy institute.

Best Vacation

Swimming with sea turtles in Hawaii


Dave likes to bike, garden and eat popcorn! Regan likes to dance, hike and host game nights!

Favorite Getaways

Regan’s sister’s land on the Smith River, as well as Yosemite and the Yuba River.

Hi! We are Regan and Dave. We hope this profile will give you a good sense of who we are and what we’re about. We are so excited to become parents. We view open adoption as forming an extended family. Our ideal is to build a warm, caring relationship with our child’s birth parents (possibly you?) to the extent that they/you desire.

We believe that open adoption means making a lifelong commitment to your child *and* to staying in touch with you and your family to the extent that you wish and to supporting a positive connection between you and your child over the years. We know we can never replace your unique role in his or her life. We can offer a safe, nurturing home based on respect, gratitude, and most of all, love.

We’re happy that we have an adoption-friendly community to offer our child! We have close friends who have either been adopted, adopted their children, or are birth/first mothers themselves, and we are blessed with the benefit of all of their perspectives. We’re also looking forward to play-dates with the adopted children of our friends and to create a supportive network with them that normalizes adoption for all of our children.

Our Pledge to You

Our pledge to you is to love your child unconditionally, to provide a safe, nurturing, loving, stable home, grounded in social justice values that affirm the humanity of all people. We will always help your child know who their birth parents and birth family are, and to support them in having a great relationship with you.

Regan is able to be a stay-at-home parent for at least the first year and then will work part-time from home. Dave is able to take at least 6 months off to start. After that, he will be able to work a four-day work week, so we will both have lots of time to spend with this little one. We will both be working from home.

Getting to Know Us

We were introduced by a mutual friend. Our first date — the day before Valentine’s in 2010 — was a hike in the Oakland hills. We hit it off from the get-go and quickly discovered that we had many friends and interests in common.  After living for many years in Oakland, CA, we recently moved back to the lovely beach town of Santa Cruz, CA, where Regan lived for ten years before and we still have lots of friends nearby. We love all of the perks of living in the greater San Francisco Bay Area: progressive values, amazing food, lots of great music and culture, and the ocean and nature nearby. We have both been active in local economic, racial, LGBT and disability justice issues through our activism, attending rallies and marches, and our day-to-day work. We’re both big nature lovers and enjoy hiking in the redwoods, boogie boarding, biking and watching for sea otters and whales from the coastline.

About Regan

Regan was raised in northern Virginia with her mother and older sister and their mutt named Rags. Her father and stepmother lived close by in Washington, D.C. In her twenties, she worked as a sea kayak guide, massage therapist, teen theater director, and a union organizer before going back to school to get a master’s degree in documentary film. For the last 13 years, she has worked in the documentary film field as a director, producer, impact producer and distributor. Throughout her life, she has been very involved in social justice activism.

Her last film, FIXED, was about disability and technology. It was broadcast on PBS and screened in festivals and college classrooms around the world. For the past few years, she has been coordinating national screening tours, managing distribution and consulting for social issue films on their impact strategy.

For fun, she enjoys going hiking, swimming, reading, hosting game nights, dancing (mostly around the house these days), and tackling new recipes. In the winter, she pulls out her knitting projects, and some lucky relative gets a new hat or scarf that Christmas!

What Dave says about Regan

“I have so many good times with Regan. One of the first things that enamored me to her was seeing how sweet, caring, and fun she is with her nephew. I love watching them build gigantic cushion-sheet forts, dress up as pirates, enact elaborate plays with complex set designs. It’s given me a sense of the love, steady support, and good times she’ll provide as a parent. I can’t wait to see her with our child, making pancakes in the morning, blasting some classic soul, with spoon-microphones raised to their mouths, belting out Aretha Franklin. It will be a sight to see!”

About Dave

Dave grew up alongside his twin brother, one younger brother, politically active parents, and a Labrador retriever named Dolly in Seattle, WA. He has a PhD in Statistics and works for a UC San Francisco homelessness and housing policy think tank that is working to end homelessness in California and across the country. He has worked on and off as an organizer for his union and volunteers with local nonprofits. On weekends, you’ll find him working in the backyard veggie garden, biking in the hills, or cooking up big pots of delicious food. When he can, he heads to the Sierras to backpack in the wilderness. But what he loves most is a cozy evening at home with Regan.

What Regan says about Dave…

“Dave is the perfect balance of fun, loving, kind, smart, and responsible.  Our nephews and niece adore him, as do the rest of our family and friends — and our friends’ children. He’s famous for setting up scavenger hunts for the children in our life with elaborate clues to find hidden treasures. He is curious, considerate and deeply caring about people of all ages in his life. He has an astonishing memory and remembers all of our friends’ relatives’ names and always remembers to ask about them. He also has boundless energy, is quite silly, and can be found belting out Whitney Houston’s ‘The Greatest Love of All’ lyrics at the top of his lungs on a moment’s notice. And yet he’s also the one to jump up to do the dishes first or to set up the guest room really nice when we have family coming to town. I knew he was someone I would love to raise a child with early in our dating life, before we lived together, when I walked into his bedroom and found him in bed reading a book on “How To Finance Your Child’s College Education,” and my heart went pitter pat.”

Home Sweet Home

Our home is a safe, warm, and nurturing place. We live about a mile from the ocean and within five minutes from three local parks for hiking. We love to cook healthy, yummy meals and host dinner parties, game nights, and occasional Sunday morning brunch with our friends and their children. Weekday evenings, we can be found either home reading, playing cards, watching Netflix, or whipping up big pots of food. We live near lots of fun spots for kids: playgrounds, the Santa Cruz boardwalk, beaches, and parks abound, not to mention everything else the Bay Area has to offer. We appreciate the values of this region: openness, inclusion, and reflection on how to create a just, sustainable world. We are excited to raise a child here!

Our Family & Community

We both have amazingly supportive, loving, close-knit families. A child in our family will have no lack for cousins to play with or an extended family who will love them dearly! Both of our families love the outdoors and are politically progressive and open-minded. We are grateful  that both of Dave’s parents are pediatricians and we’ll be able to call upon them for advice anytime. This summer, all 19 of our immediate family from both sides (13 adults and 6 kids) met up on the Oregon coast to explore the beautiful beaches and run around on the giant sand dunes with the kiddos.

Most summers, Dave’s extended family rents a house for a week that’s big enough for all of us in a beautiful location in Washington State, near the Puget Sound or in the mountains, so the whole family, especially all the children can spend time and have fun together, playing at the beach, or hiking and swimming in mountain lakes. Every August, we also camp for a week at Regan’s sister’s beautiful property right on the Smith River in northern California, spending time with Regan’s sister and her family in this slice of paradise. Mostly, we swim like river otters all day long and cook up yummy feasts for everyone in the outdoor riverfront kitchen. It’s heavenly!

We are also blessed with a large, fun, diverse circle of friends who are part of our extended family. Many of them have children whom we enjoy spending time with. We look forward to seeing our child grow up in this warm and dynamic community.

Thank you for considering us!

We promise to support your child in becoming their truest self, to nurture their interests, and to support them in living their dreams every step of the way.  We want to give our child every opportunity to learn and grow. Above all, we want them to feel loved, safe and cherished. Along with providing a stable and loving home, we hope to foster a strong sense of self-confidence, curiosity, and respect for themselves and the people in their lives, so that they can enjoy healthy, loving relationships and a vibrant community.

One thing to mention is that Regan identifies as queer/bisexual and her sister identifies as lesbian and has a long-term female partner with whom she is raising their 13 year old son. It’s important to us to match with an expectant parent who is comfortable with LGBT people. We also want to acknowledge that we’re no spring chickens. 😉 We hope that this is seen as an asset: we have a lot of love and wisdom to share and we’re in a place in our lives where we are grounded in who we are and lucky enough to have financial stability and can really devote ourselves completely to loving and supporting this child.

Please let us know if you have any questions about us. We are very grateful for your time and wish you all the best.

If we feel like the right match for you, please reach us through Adoption Connection via phone/text or email:


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